The Pain Of Seeing Him With Someone Else

You were doing the work. Saying the affirmations. Visualizing the relationship. Then - bam - you saw him with another girl. Maybe it was a photo on Instagram, a story shared by a mutual friend, or even worse, you saw it in person. And in that instant, your heart dropped. It felt like all your hope evaporated. “He’s moved on,” your mind screams. “I’ve lost him forever.”

This is one of the most painful moments on the SP manifestation journey. It feels like betrayal, rejection, and abandonment rolled into one sharp blow. Jealousy surges. Insecurity flares. Your mind obsesses: Who is she? Is she prettier than me? Smarter? Why does she have what I’ve been trying to create?

The fallout can be brutal. You may find yourself spiraling - refreshing his profile, crying through the night, abandoning your affirmations because “What’s the point if he’s clearly with someone else?” You might even feel like the Universe is mocking you, as if your manifestation is slipping through your fingers.

But here’s the truth: This moment is not a sign of failure. It’s an invitation.

An invitation to return to your power. To re-align with the truth that you are Source. That reality is not happening to you - it’s happening from you. Let’s gently walk through this moment together using the 9 Core Being Source Principles, so you can rise from this heartbreak, reclaim your worth, and manifest your SP with confidence and ease.

The Being Source Perspective: Reclaiming Your Power After the Trigger

1. Being Source & I Am Source:
You are not separate from creation - you are creation itself. That means your SP, this third party, and the situation are not outside forces. They are reflections of beliefs, perceptions, and energetic patterns you have the power to shift. When you remember I am Source, you stop chasing and start creating.

2. Awareness:
Before reacting to the trigger, take a breath. This is a call to become aware. What beliefs surfaced when you saw him with another girl? “I’m not good enough.” “He doesn’t want me.” “I’ve been replaced.” These beliefs are not truth -they are stories the mind tells to make sense of pain. Awareness is your first step to reclaiming choice.

3. 3D Reality:
What you see with your physical eyes is old news - a past reflection of your dominant thoughts and feelings. The 3D is never the final word. Your SP with someone else is simply a snapshot of a version of him that matched a previous version of you. It does not mean it’s over. You have the power to shift timelines.

4. Time, An Illusion:
It may feel like you’ve “run out of time” or that this moment is a step backward - but time is not linear. Your SP can shift instantly when you shift your state of Being. Manifestation isn’t about waiting - it’s about aligning with the version of you who already has what she desires.

5. Transcend Separation:
Jealousy is a symptom of believing in separation - from your SP, from love, from your desires. But there is no true separation. The love you seek is already within you, and the connection you desire with your SP exists in the quantum field right now. You are never apart in Spirit.

6. Power of Words:
Be mindful of what you speak -both out loud and in your inner dialogue. Saying “It’s over” or “She won” reinforces the separation. Instead, speak from the reality you choose: I am chosen. I am loved. My SP is mine, always has been. Your words direct energy - use them wisely.

7. Creation Is a Choice, a Decision:
You get to decide what this moment means. Will you choose to see it as rejection -or redirection back to your divine power? Will you crumble - or rise? Choose to believe in your desire. Choose to believe in your ability to create it.

8. Perception Creates Reality:
How you perceive this situation determines what comes next. Is she “better” than you -or is she simply a mirror of a belief you’re now ready to dissolve? Reframe the scene: This is showing me exactly where I still feel unworthy - so I can heal, evolve, and manifest from wholeness.

Manifesting Tools For Your SP Journey: You Don't Have To Do It Alone

• Use our Subliminal audios to rewire your subconscious for worthiness, love, and being chosen.

• Try an EFT tapping script sequence to release jealousy and fear while anchoring into safety and confidence.

• Immerse yourself in a guided Meditation to reconnect with your desired reality.

• And use our manifestation Rampage to flood your system with the frequency of already having your SP.

This is not the end - it’s a sacred turning point. Let this trigger become the catalyst that brings you home to yourself.

You are not a victim of your reality. You are Source.

And, from that place - anything is possible!

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I SAW HIM WITH ANOTHER GIRL

"He blocked me. Said he was done. Now he texts me good morning every day." Our fight was ugly. He told me he didn’t want anything to do with me. I felt sick, honestly. But then I found the Being Source course. The "3D is just a mirror" principle hit me. I was reacting to the reflection — not changing the source. So I let go. I focused on inner peace, safety, and love. Within days, he unblocked me. A week later, he showed up with an apology. Now he’s consistent, affectionate, and honestly? A little obsessed. The real shift was in me. He just caught up. Thank you SO much for your Being Source course - its been a life-changer!!!"

Bella, Miami

"I stopped chasing. Now he won’t stop messaging me." I kept messaging him. Checking my phone. Reading between the silence. I felt like I was losing myself. The Being Source course helped me drop the noise and return to being the version who is already loved. I stopped reaching out. I stopped trying to get his attention. I focused on my identity. One month later, he started reaching out again. First casually... now daily. I don’t even need him to validate me anymore.
But he does. All the time. That’s the power of Being Source."

Maya, Cape Town

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